“You will always be too much of something for someone: too big, too loud, too soft, too edgy. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge. Apologize for mistakes. Apologize for unintentionally hurting someone profusely. But don’t apologize for being who you are.” – Danielle LaPorte

For creative people, women, or anyone who subverts society’s absolute norm, criticism feels like it’s everywhere. The quote above might sound cliche, in a be your best self/live your best life kind of way. But one of my favorite adages applies here: a cliche is a cliche because it’s often true.

Now, let’s move on to celebrating all things you. Both crystals and learning about your zodiac sign provide an incredible space for self-reflection, a practice we should all make time for. But instead of choosing crystals to try to drive out the so-called negative qualities of your zodiac sign, we’ve selected ones that will help you honor all the things that make your sign great. Read on to find the crystal that will pour a metaphorical bucket of confetti over what you love most about your sign and yourself.

(Sharon McCutcheon)

Sign: Aries

Crystal: Bloodstone

Aries, you’re the ultimate badass of the zodiac, and bloodstone loves that about you. Also known as heliotrope, bloodstone will help you get more in touch with your already courageous, adventurous nature. Put one on your car’s dashboard or hang it from your rearview mirror; because adding this crystal to your already high speed life is going to push you to make some moves. Whether that’s to whatever region has been calling you most or more metaphorical motivation is up to you.

Bloodstone or Heliotrope. (Courtesy of Earth Synergy)

Sign: Taurus

Crystal: Black Tourmaline

If anyone has ever called you stubborn like it’s a bad thing, know that they’re just jealous you’re not so easily moved. Tauruses are known as persistent and down to earth, arguably rare and valuable qualities. Know what else is semi-rare? Tourmaline. It eliminates negative energy, keeping you grounded in yourself (aka, where any Taurus would feel right at home). It will also charge your natural patience, keeping you at a safe distance from any “energy vampires” who might challenge something so inherent to Earth signs.

Black tourmaline (Courtesy of Mauro Cateb via flickr)

Sign: Gemini

Crystal: Turquoise

A universal truth about Geminis: you’re softer than people realize at first. Maybe it’s your wit, or your flexible and soft-spoken nature, but people tend to be harder on you than you might like until you make your boundaries clear. Turquoise, the protector stone, is what every Gemini has been missing in their lives. Ancient warriors allegedly used to carry it with them when heading out to battle. It’s not only a protective stone, but also helps amplify wisdom so you can feel heard and seen like you deserve to.

Turquoise (Courtesy of Y Jeweler)

Sign: Cancer

Crystal: Rose quartz

Honestly, fuck anyone who puts Cancers down for loving love. Love is why we’re here! Love is what proves the existence of anything greater than biology, anything spiritual! Rose quartz is notorious for bringing specifically romantic love into the holder’s life, so deck the halls with this crystal and wish the haters well. They just don’t have a big heart like you do, Cancer.

Rose quartz (Courtesy of Summerland Floral)

Sign: Leo

Crystal: Aventurine

Leo, you have no idea how perfect this crystal is for you! You’re already optimistic (let’s be real you wouldn’t have such big dreams if you weren’t) and inherently lucky, just like aventurine. Sitting with this crystal in your hand for 20 minutes is said to bring good luck and rid the holder of all negativity, just like how sitting with you, dear Leo, can energize even the most gloomy of Eeyores. Continue your cycle of awesomeness and get ahold of one of these ASAP.

Aventurine (Courtesy of wikipedia)

Sign: Virgo

Crystal: Sodalite

Sodalite is almost comically compatible with Virgo personalities. If you’re a Virgo, you know that intelligence and practicality are fully central to your identity. Sodalite will clear your mind to help you make those rational decisions that make you feel proud of yourself when they’re said and done. Keep it on your desk to help you write, because this stone also opens up your communication skills to help with expressing your higher level thoughts. Maybe put it next to your fountain pen (we know you have one, and honestly we think it’s pretty rad).

Sodalite (Courtesy of Rock Paradise)

Sign: Libra

Crystal: Lapis Lazuli

Let’s be honest, we’ve all fallen for a Libra a few times in our lives. After all, you Libras not only seem like the most charming and romantic sign of the zodiac, you’re also the most tactful and just. You have no trouble attracting love into your life, but what you want even more than the chase is something substantial. Enter lapis lazuli, the crystal that represents truth and justice. It’s said to help you harmonize heart and mind, access your most honest and deepest desires, and loosen up your vocal cords, just in case you still want to sing that love song you definitely wrote.

Lapis lazuli (Courtesy of Cobalt via Flikr)

Sign: Scorpio

Crystal: Obsidian

We get it, Scorpio, you’re cooler than all of us. You’re more down to explore the dark places in life, from spooky graveyards and abandoned places to the parts of yourself that the other signs might not have as easy of a time acknowledging. With that said, your geological partner in crime should absolutely be obsidian. This crystal helps with self-reflection and working through hidden trauma scars. Ironically, it even kind of looks like a mirror.

Snowflake obsidian (Courtesy of Geology In)

Sign: Sagittarius

Crystal: Opal

Being that Sagittarius is the most philosophical sign of the zodiac, Opal sounds a great crystal for you to have around. You’ll notice the way it enhances your third eye and larger consciousness. But in a more worldly sense, it helps release inhibitions, as Sagittariuses thrive most while feeling free. Opal is also said to make the holder less self conscious about their appearance, but that’s just an added bonus because you already know you’re hot, Sag.

Galaxy opal (Via Pinterest)

Sign: Capricorn

Crystal: Garnet

If you’re a Capricorn, you probably love the feeling of having your shit together. You’re a planner and the envy of spacey air signs. Being that you function best when you’re energized and in the present moment, have some garnet around. It’ll help you be your best type A, organized self, upping your already steady vibe.

Garnet crystals (Courtesy of James St. John via flickr)

 

Sign: Aquarius

Crystal: Amethyst

Some Aquarians might have amethyst as their birth stone as well, which makes sense being that this sign lives and dies by the law of attraction. Although the water bearer might seem bubbly and social, Aquarians crave independence for the sake of their creativity. Make your me time even more creatively productive: put an amethyst on the side of your tub while taking a bath for increased intuition and contentment. It’ll be welcome company, which seems ironic because Aquarians have absolutely mastered the art of being alone. Pat yourself on the back for being able to enjoy solo time, it’s not an easy skill for some.

Amethyst (Via wikipedia)

Sign: Pisces

Crystal: Fluorite

Aww Pisces, you deserve some Fluorite in your life! You’re compassionate, imaginative, and sensitive; and this crystal has those same good vibes. Fluorite is basically a spiritual Roomba: just having it near wherever you do your art or best thinking will sweep up all negativity and foster joyful expression. Plus it looks like a scale from the fish in that children’s book Rainbow Fish, which feels sweet and wholesome just like you.

Fluorite (Via wikipedia)